You built a good life. You're just not sure you'd be okay.
You're capable. You run a household, maybe a company. People trust your judgment. But when it comes to the money, what you actually have and what would carry you if it stopped, you were never fully in the room.
That's not a flaw. Nobody handed you the map, and the conversations were probably built to talk over you instead of include you. The good news? It's the most fixable thing there is.


